The Art of the Lost Deal! 54 Comments
money

Frustrated? No, not really. Disappointed? Somewhat!

I work full time and I dabble part time. I’m fairly busy thus keep my hoof marks to a minimum and tackle to keep it interesting. Take only the projects that are interesting, creative and challenging. Some projects come from Ethiopians, and a few others not.

About a month ago, I had more than a small number of projects lined up. The money of course is lower than the median market price. Regardless, I was keen to transgress a few, being that it was something to do, and perhaps extra money. 

As you know Ethiopians are akin to talking, they want to meet and jabber for an hour or so, albeit the fact the project requires only half an hour.

…wanna to talk; let’s talk. Just make sure you get me some buna"

Quoting the market price is sure to provoke a flinching reaction and thus will bring forth the negotiation ceremony and ending in a price lower than the market.

A client wanted to barter about 2,000$ of work, thought about it and believe it to be an insult. Another possible client had me decrease my price about 40% we met at least 3 times to waste my time telling him the mores of marketing a product to Ethiopians. At the end he gave the project to a non-Ethiopian business, most likely at a price twice what I quoted him. His lose! Only an Ethiopian would know the intricacies of advertising to the Ethiopian consumer.

….never carry out a project for an Abesha [Ethiopian] with out atleast half of the payment as a deposit!”

-The solitary advice given to me by a fellow Ethiopian Graphic Designer about 3 years ago.

Optimistically, it works out, and a deposit is sent. The contrary usual phenomenon is the deal falling through the cracks at this stage.

Yet another venture, once the negotiation was finalized the client disappeared. Been burned a few times over the years thus I’m content when they vanish prior to involvement of production.

This is not to say there are no Ethiopian businesspersons that follow general business ethics, there are and I’ve had the pleasure to work with a few. It’s just that most Ethiopians do not like to pay for a service from an Ethiopian even if the service is up to par with non-Ethiopian service provider. Why? Well, in my humble opinion both the service person and the client act unprofessionally when dealing with each other.

The fact that the service person is Ethiopian should not be given special significance. Nor should the client be given extra room just because they happen to be Ethiopians. We should acknowledge the fact they are Ethiopian and stress to keep the money within the community.

54 Responses to “The Art of the Lost Deal!”


  1. 1 yonas

    Top 10 lies told to naive artists and designers:
    http://www.paintercreativity.com/articles/top-10-lies.html

  2. 2 Nolawi

    Yonas, That hit me, its so very true! I am Naive..

  3. 3 Mamitu

    I tell my clients that I do not lift my fingers before getting my contract and some money. I say that I went to school for 19 years and each stroke of my hand is invested on and worth the amount of money I ask.

  4. 4 soda

    Curious as to what you do? mamitu?

  5. 5 yonas

    LMAO @soda

  6. 6 Nolawi

    It does sound like mamitu is some kind of massage therapist aydel?

  7. 7 Mamitu

    I am not a massage therapist but an interior designer, and you would be surprised at how many people ask me to draw them a few lines (wereket laay tinish char char adergilign) for them to see how their house, restaurant, convenient store or what ever will look like if I designed it for them. I say Show me the Contract and the Money first.

  8. 8 akile

    Abesha need learn this…’to make money, need to spend money’. As a programmer, I have my share of lost $$$$ with Abesha — most want a Ferrari at price of Hyndai Accent. Never again!

  9. 9 Nolawi

    I guess I’m not the only one that has encoutered problems… I wont lift finger either

  10. 10 Robert

    Usually I don’t leave a comment but I wanted to let you know that I really like your site.

  11. 11 Seattle Architecture Firm

    You have to set your boundaries, and mine is usually at the point of drawing. I will talk to potential clients as much as they want, but I don’t draw anything. If you can establish what your boundary is, then it’s much easier to deal with these situations.

  12. 12 Jeff

    I was searching google for information about massage couches and somehow ended up on this site. Anyway, it was an interesting article.

  13. 13 Mike

    you all need to stop complaining about abesha clients since you choose to entertain them in the first place. I think it’s obvious that our culture lacks- should not say lack- but is different than westerners..ie.e the initial manuvering (buna etc) prior “contract sign”, attempts to barter and all of that. I think eastern culture including business dealings is based on relatinships, networks and referances…and using such media comes with it’s own etiquette (by definition, which are, by the way, all the things that you guys are complaining about…we need to realize that we’re mixing and two cultures and judging one based on values learned from the other…

  14. 14 Chriam

    I added this post to my bookmarks <3 More of this pls Greetings from South Africa

  15. 15 Team Roster

    You you should make changes to the page name The Art of the Lost Deal! : bernosâ„¢ | African T-Shirts to something more specific for your webpage you write. I loved the post yet.

  16. 16 Brendan

    As everyone would not like to do it the same
    manner, people though like to add the color in little area
    for the spectacular appearance, authenticity and volume.

    Certain tiles like granite floor tiles tend to accent a kitchen well.
    Price can greatly range when shopping for kitchen materials, but choosing the
    cheapest materials won’t always save you money as they might wear out prematurely.

    Here is my web blog … Clash Of Clans facebook hack (Brendan)

  17. 17 ways to make money online

    Howdy! Quick question that’s completely
    օff topic. Dօ ƴou ҟnow how tο make ʏοur site moble friendly?

    Ӎy site looks weird when viewing ffrom my applpe iphone.
    ӏ’m trying tto find a theme οr plugin that
    might Ƅe ɑble to fix tis
    issue. Ιf ʏou ɦave anyy recommendations, рlease share.
    Ԝith thanks!

    My homepage :: ways to make money online

  18. 18 Free Slots

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts on tshirts. Regards

  19. 19 pagina internet

    Hey there, You have done an incredible job.
    I’ll definitely digg it and personally recommend to my friends.

    I’m confident they will be benefited from this site.

  20. 20 retete simple

    It’s going to be finish of mine day, however before end I am reading this wonderful paragraph
    to increase my experience.

  21. 21 fun free games

    I go to see everyday a few sites and sites to read
    content, however this webpage provides feature based content.

  22. 22 Iklan Jual Apartemen

    Nice to know you pals, Please visit my blog too, IDProperti.com | Pasang Iklan Properti

  23. 23 ?????????????????????????2023??????????????????????????????.??????????????????

    ?????? ?????? ??????????
    ?????????????????????~??????????????????????????!
    ???????????????????
    A4??????????????????????????????!
    ??????????????????????????????????
    ????????????????
    ?????????????????????????2023??????????????????????????????.?????????????????? https://www.tentenok.com/products-small-m-66-p-2.html

  24. 24 ??????? ????? ?????

    ?????? – N??????? ???????
    ????????????????
    ????????????
    ?????????????????????? ????
    ?????(N??),?????????(N??),??(N??)???(N??),?(N?),??(N??),???(N??),???? (N??)

    ?100%????!????!??????100%!
    ????????????????????
    ????????????????????!
    ?????? ?? ???
    ??????????(????)
    ??????? ????? ????? https://www.bbagok.com/watch/breguet/aeronavale/e6cb710584efc4af.html

  25. 25 cm8 slot vip

    Thanks in favor of sharing such a nice thinking, paragraph is fastidious,
    thats why i have read it completely

  26. 26 cm8 slot

    Link exchange is nothing else except it is just placing the other person’s website link on your page at proper place and other person will also do similar in favor of you.

  27. 27 cm8 slot login

    Hello there, just became aware of your blog through Google, and found that it is truly informative.

    I am going to watch out for brussels. I will be grateful if you continue this in future.
    Many people will be benefited from your writing. Cheers!

  28. 28 Cm8slot-Login

    This site really has all of the information I wanted concerning this subject and didn’t know who to ask.

  29. 29 cm8 situs vip dijamin gacor

    That is a good tip especially to those fresh to the
    blogosphere. Short but very accurate information… Appreciate your
    sharing this one. A must read post!

  30. 30 cm8login-situsvip

    Right here is the right web site for anyone who wants to understand this topic.

    You know so much its almost hard to argue with you (not that
    I personally would want to…HaHa). You certainly put a new
    spin on a topic that’s been discussed for many years.
    Excellent stuff, just wonderful!

  31. 31 raja ngamen

    Unquestionably beliеve thаt which yοu ѕaid.

    Ⲩоur favorite justification seemed tο Ьe ⲟn thе web
    the easiest thing tο be aware ⲟf.
    Ι ѕay t᧐ уοu, Ι сertainly
    ɡet annoyed ѡhile people сonsider worries tһаt they just ɗⲟn’t
    κnoᴡ аbout. Үоu managed tо hit thе nail սpon thе
    top and also defined оut tһе ԝhole thing
    ᴡithout һaving side effect , people can take а
    signal. Ꮃill ⅼikely ƅе ƅack to ɡеt more.
    Ƭhanks

  32. 32 slot-demo-olympus-nikmati-3-fitur-spesial-dan-menarik

    I truly love your blog.. Pleasant colors & theme.
    Did you develop this web site yourself? Please reply back as I’m attempting to create
    my own blog and would love to know where you got
    this from or exactly what the theme is named. Many thanks!

  33. 33 cm8 slot

    Hi! Someone in my Facebook group shared this site with us so I came to look it over.
    I’m definitely loving the information. I’m bookmarking and will be tweeting this
    to my followers! Superb blog and great design and style.

  34. 34 slot thailand

    I think the admin of this web site is actually working hard for his
    web site, as here every material is quality based information.

  35. 35 Situs Iklan Jual Beli Properti Terbaik

    Your articles never fail to deliver Thank you for sharing your expertise IDProperticom

  36. 36 Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

    Can’t wait to share this with my friends Keep up the great work! Pasang Iklan Properti

  37. 37 wd808

    It’s hard to come by experienced people for this subject, but you seem like you know what you’re talking about!
    Thanks

  38. 38 Lucas van der Meer

    Over de schutting kijken pepe88 betekent Benieuwd zijn naar wat anderen doen.

  39. 39 Pasang Iklan Hotel

    Sambil menikmati kopi, artikel ini sungguh menyegarkan pikiran. Terima kasih atas berbaginya. Salam dari IDProperti.com | Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

  40. 40 Iklan Apartemen Dijual Cepat

    Thanks for the great content. Your blog is very helpful. Cheers, Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

  41. 41 Tempat Pasang Iklan Sewa Rumah

    Your blog is a must-read for anyone interested in this topic Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

  42. 42 Tempat Pasang Iklan Rumah Gratis

    Your blog never fails to impress Regards from Indonesia! Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

  43. 43 PePe88

    Nicht vom Hocker hauenAlles in Butter pepe88 Wird verwendet, um zu sagen, dass alles in Ordnung und geregelt ist.

  44. 44 pepe88

    Unter vier Augen sprechen pepe88 Ein privates Gespräch führen

  45. 45 Pepe88

    Den Nagel auf den Kopf treffen pepe88 Bedeutet, etwas genau richtig zu machen.

  46. 46 pepe88

    Jemanden auf den Finger sehen pepe88 Jemandes Handlungen genau beobachten.

  47. 47 PEPE88

    Sich die Zähne an etwas ausbeißen pepe88 Mit etwas kämpfen oder scheitern

  48. 48 Pasang Iklan Jual Kos-Kosan Gratis

    What a fantastic article! Your writing is engaging and your insights are incredibly valuable. The level of detail and the quality of your analysis are outstanding. I’m thoroughly impressed by the depth of your knowledge and the clarity of your presentation. Thank you for this excellent piece. Regards, Pasang Iklan Properti Gratis

  49. 49 pEpE88

    Vom Hölzchen aufs Stöckchen kommen pepe88 Von einem Thema zum anderen in einem Gespräch wechseln.

  50. 50 pepe88

    Von allen guten Geistern verlassen sein pepe88 Unvernünftig oder verrückt handeln

  51. 51 pEpE88

    Een paal boven water pepe88 – Etwas ist ganz sicher.

  52. 52 Pepe88

    Het kind met het badwater weggooien pepe88 – Das Gute zusammen mit dem Schlechten wegwerfen.

  53. 53 Iklan Properti Online

    Your articles are consistently enlightening and enjoyable Thank you from IDProperticom!

  1. 1 hydrocodone apap 5 500

Leave a Reply